this is my second post. i wrote this when i read an entry on a blog, at home.
do we have to calculate when is our ovulation day? it is for finding when is the best time to make baby. but, i do not calculate mine. hmm... semuanya rezeki tapi kita kena rancang jugak.
a friend of mine, married for 10 months, tapi belum ada rezeki.
another friend, one month after getting married, she announced the pregnancy.
another one, married in August and get pregnant in October.
one of my consultant, his wife only +ve after 6 months trial.
my uncle, married in Dec 2006 and only +ve in Dec 2007.
Along was born after 10 years.
two of my colleagues have been married for years but don't have any child.
jadi semuanya bergantung kepada rezeki. tak semua orang bunting pelamin. tak semua orang diberi rezeki awal. tak semua orang berkemampuan. jadi, tak perlu lah bertanya. kerana, mungkin soalan itu menghiris hati yang ditanya. kadang2 aku pelik, kenapa orang lain yang sibuk. it is good to know that other people care about us, but not this kind of question. it is sensitive. can u imagine, a pregnant lady asked a guy, who has married for 2 years "eh, awak dah 2 tahun kan? takkan wife tak pregnant lagi?". takde hati perut kot. kesian mamat tu.
in other words, berdoalah untuk rezekinya.
2 comments:
kawai kalau jumpa dokter pon.. dokter suh balik je.. selagi tak setahun.. it is normal katanya..
yang halal susah nak dpt.. yg haram selalunye senang..
a'a geram je tengok berita kes2 buang bayi. kalu tak nak bagi la orang, tak yah bunuh2, buang2. monyet pon sayang anak.
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